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Is BDSM Funny?

I got this really interesting email from a reader the other day. PLEASE comment your thoughts on her observations. I will respond in the comments as well.

March 12, 2010 | 46 Comments

My First...

I was adopted at infancy and raised in a very strict religious family. I was loved. The love was sincere, but I knew I wasn't really their child. Always a good girl, I took very few risks growing up. I was/am a pleaser. Having been raised by a very strong willed, controlling mother, I wondered what was wrong with me. I could tell...

March 10, 2010 | 11 Comments

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While You Were Sleeping

March 9, 2010 | 21

OMG this clip is something I fantasize about all the time - being used while unconscious. Like this fantasy post I wrote a while back. Watching it made my pussy throb right out of my pants. Made my whole body pulse.

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Athena Lace Bralette Set

March 7, 2010 | 53

This lingerie is called Athena. Why yes I do feel like a goddess when I wear it. I have to say I'm much hotter than the mannequin. Here is proof!

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My Sexy Texts

March 5, 2010 | 10

Here are some text messages and pics I sent to my Loverman the past few months using my stupid AT&T phone. Maybe they gave me such a hard time because they were JEALOUS.

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AT&T Made Me Safeword

March 4, 2010 | 14

BDSM is supposed to be safe, sane, and consensual. Tell that to AT&T. They just put me through a four month non-consensual mindfuck.

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TBK Get Together Friday!

March 2, 2010 | 23

TBK Get Together this Friday! Also, remember how I featured several of the New York City Sex Blogger Calendar models as YATBK on my site last year? Well, they're inviting bloggers worldwide to be included in the 2011 calendar, and I've decided to submit a photo for consideration.

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Got Wood?

March 2, 2010 | 18

I have to admit, when I interviewed Annie Sprinkle and asked her who her last sex partner was and she answered, "Yesterday I cruised a tree that was really sexy. I went up and fondled and sniffed it. It had this beautiful strong beauty..." it took me by surprise. But wow if you love nature, it makes total sense to take tree hugging to a new level.

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1 hour 1 min ago
Atomic Cowboy Foxhole St Lou Sinner party was fun. Beast bought the devil a drink. He was rewarded for it.

7 hours 19 min ago
Um, HOLY SHIT. Another crazy night! Surprise foursome this time. Anal, caning, freaky orgasm. Detail later. Zzzz!

11 hours 14 min ago
OK we're heading to Atomic Cowboy. Hope to meet Chuck & have a column in St Louis Sinner soon!

14 hours 22 min ago
Can't decide if we'll go to Atomic Cowboy St Lou Sinner party tonight. Will you be there?

Comments

Tin Plated Hero: There's a lot here, to the point that I'm not entirely sure where to begin with. However, the most critical thing that I think I can comment on is the lack of perception that I see in the email....

Miss: I too find BDSM often cartoonish and prescribed. I don't have the same hang-ups with it - I reckon for the most part people won't do it if they aren't genuinely into it - but I look at the same old...

anonymouse: I respond poorly to pain. This made me wary of bdsm at first; I got hurt too easily. Didn't understand what others got out of "being hurt" during sex. Learned more, explored more. Some years later,...

Kitty Calhoun: We all make judgements. We avoid a dark alley because it may be dangerous. I similar person to ourselves may live down that alley and go down it to get home. We make judgments for self preservation...

fuzzilla: For me, my need to know a guy's motivations for kink are important as a getting-to-know-you filtering device. My dating profile (when I had one) used to mention being curious about BDSM and all...

Lionman: That would be true if I were going to sit at the table and have an interaction, I would want to determine the relationships - which can be complicated in a poly amorous group. I stopped by to see...

the velvet lilly: huck yourself off a 20' cliff on a pair of skis..... that is damned sexy! (from the Southern girl who didn't see hills or snow before age 10) And Rockabilly Girl....well said! Well everyone has had...