Category Archives: Event
By Kendra Holliday | April 27, 2013 at 7:19 am
I’ve had my yoni eggs for almost a year now. I’ve had them since before my hysterectomy.
I’ve futzed around with them off and on over the months, not really committing to them, just experimenting.
(Before you read any further, make sure you read my post yesterday all about yoni eggs so you know what the hell I’m talking about.)
One night, I had an intense phone conversation with my partner Matthew. Hectic life was getting in the way of our relationship and we weren’t feeling connected. The talk left me feeling agitated and upset. Exhausted, I went to sleep feeling like a smelly, wrung out dishrag.
At 3:40, I woke to great thunder and lightning. The tumultuous storm rattled the windows. I fretted and tried relaxing.
I drank a glass of wine.
I stuck my tiger’s eye yoni egg inside me – I wanted something inside. It was soo cold going in.
I frantically masturbated. When I came, I screamed. Then I cried hard, and fell back asleep. I had weird dreams, but don’t really remember them.
I woke to the alarm feeling dreary and drab, not refreshed.
My body clenched the egg tight, it didn’t want to let it go. I had to push it out, and when I did, it was really hot, and some ejaculate came with it.
More tears – this time from my pussy. More release.
By Kendra Holliday | February 8, 2013 at 6:31 am
Note: I first published this on Jan 7. My first DP is tomorrow. I am in no way any more prepared for this than I was a month ago. Wish me luck!!!
DP = Double Penetration.
Now that I’ve had a few great Male-Female-Male (MFM) threesomes, I’m ready to take it to the next level and try a real, live cock in my pussy AND a real, live cock in my ass AT THE SAME TIME!
You know – LIKE IN PORN.
I can’t ever tell if any of the participants are enjoying it or not, because they’re all concentrating so hard. It looks like a lot of work! But is it intensely hot? Anal can be. MFM’s can be. So why not combine them all together? (Wouldn’t you love to see DP outtakes?)
I guess I should practice with these toys first. I haven’t had anal sex in a few months.
The two men are 250 lbs and 300 lbs – I’ll be 130 lbs of women between them. A thin wall will be the only thing separating the two. I’ll bet their balls will touch. In my eyes, it’s almost like being right in the middle of GAY PORN! But there’s a woman in the center of it all, so it’s NOT!
I’ll be in the middle of a bull pen, a shark tank, a bear pit! Grrrr!
Naturally we needed to find the right guy, someone we both like a lot. I mean, I plan on facing him as we do it. The guy is Homer, aka the Gentleman from this date I had.
I’m trying to figure out the best position – I’m thinking Homer should lie on his back toward the end of the bed. I’ll be on top, and Matthew will bring up the rear.
By Kendra Holliday | January 4, 2013 at 6:32 am
I just found out about another awesome animal gender and sexuality project happening – this one is called Crime Against Nature.
From the press release:
“What do single moms, stay-at-home dads, professionals who happen to be women, men who like to dress colorfully, infertile people, and homosexuals have in common? They’re often viewed by society as sad, bad, and even a little suspicious.
Those judgments all stem originally from one idea: that females are naturally passive and more caring, and males are naturally aggressive and more intelligent. It’s an idea that is deeply embedded in our social system and dictates much of our behavior. It’s also an idea that has nothing to do with what is actually going on in nature.
Crime Against Nature—both the book and the series—exposes the true diversity of natural behaviors.”
By Kendra Holliday | December 8, 2012 at 11:00 pm
Today I spoke with Natalia, creator/director of Showtime’s Polyamory: Married & Dating. She told me they’re hoping to film Season 2 in the Midwest! They want to show that polyamory is not just a coastal trend, but thriving right here in the Bible Belt. It sure is – I know TONS of awesome polyfolk!
Please take a look at her message below. If this is something you might be interested in, drop her a line asap!
Thank you all for your amazing support with the show, it means the world to me.
I’m reaching out in hopes of speaking with poly families interested in sharing their story with me.
I’m looking for polyamorous families that are charismatic, healthy, active; can be unmarried but practicing poly (don’t all have to live together); bisexuality is welcome in both male and female partners; and are open to sharing all aspects of their love lives. Between the ages of 25-50 would be ideal. Diversity and flexible schedule would be great!
As I think you have seen, I am a person of integrity and my intent is to portray polyamourists as loving, mature adults who are capable of carrying on multiple loving relationships in a society that has programmed us for monogamy. I’ve had so many people reach out to me, mono people struggling in their relationships telling me the show changed their lives for the better. Despite what Dr. Drew said, I believe 100% that Polyamory is a sustainable way of living — and I would like to continue the pro-Polyamory conversation in the mainstream.
If you are interested in speaking with me, I would love to hear from you! Email me at natstertv (at) yahoo (dot) com . It would help if you’ve seen the series to get a sense of what is expected. Also, I would greatly appreciate a picture along with your email so I can keep track of who’s who.
Thanks again, much love to everyone, I look forward to speaking with some of you!
By Kendra Holliday | December 5, 2012 at 6:23 am
If you are writing an email to a woman you don’t know well (or at all) and you’re requesting to attend a clothing optional party, you should NOT do this:
Hey Doll! is there still room for this event??
Instead, you should do something like this:
I wish and hope that the Holiday Season has been full of Joy and Happiness for you.
This is S, Sandy’s veterinarian friend, and previous attendee of previous CO Parties (including last year’s Fleshtivus, the Sock party, and others…). It has been a while since my schedule has allowed me to attend, and this month it finally matches up! I would be pleased if you would accept my reservation. I look forward to attending.
Thank you for your time,
I get a lot of random emails and find the one sentence requests presumptuous and cryptic. Just because you’ve read all about my butthole and threesomes and personal triumphs and tragedies doesn’t mean I know everything about you. Don’t make me search my inbox for history. Throw me a bone here! (not a cock shot) If we haven’t slept together, give me some background. And heck if we HAVE slept together, it’s still a good idea to offer me some clues. Thank you!
By Kendra Holliday | December 3, 2012 at 6:26 am
The other night Sex Positive St. Louis hosted a blowjob demo. I’ve always wanted to give a demo using a real, live man, instead of a dildo or other prop.
The first challenge was finding the right guy for the demo. He had to be someone I liked and trusted, attractive, average-sized, good at receiving head, and brave:
He had to be okay having sex in front of a bunch of people. Now, a lot of guys joked about wishing to be the demo dick, but when suck came to swallow, they found the prospect intimidating.
Luckily, my first choice for modeling my oral skills was willing to try!
J and I met for a wet run and, in front of a small group of our loved ones, had an amazing practice session. I sucked his dick, we worked some logistical kinks out, and he came all over my tits. Lovely!
Now we were ready for the actual event!
About 20 awesome people attended. The space was small, but elegant. Our hosts had a beautiful spread of wine and appetizers. The vibe was classy, warm, electric.
He was nervous; I was not. I’m an exhibitionist, and didn’t need to worry about my mouth being unable to perform.
By Kendra Holliday | October 28, 2012 at 2:58 pm
Our first upscale swinger party in St. Louis was a huge success!
I’m so glad, because our gracious hosts Kitty and Hans Von Heller spent a lot of time planning and prepping, and it really showed.
The admission price covered wine, beer, appetizers, towels, condoms, and lube. The glamorous venue got very warm from all the hot bodies, fireplace, hot tub, steam room and sauna!
At one point, I changed out of my empress gown and into a shimmery gold silk robe that I left open in an effort to cool down. I felt like a goddess all right, striding into a room in my gold heels, robe billowing, exposing my creamy, curvy body. One guest commented, “She needs to update her profile pic, her hair is much longer and curlier now.” His partner replied, “She’s wearing a wig!”
I managed to meet almost everyone who attended – 20 couples and a few single women. I didn’t know more than half the people, which was so much fun! When I asked them where they heard about the party, most of them said from my blog. I was surprised – I have no idea how many people read it these days.
By Kendra Holliday | October 15, 2012 at 6:33 am
I know it’s not fair, but I’m totally pissed at my vagina.
I’m upset that it isn’t 100% healed yet after my hysterectomy, which happened on Sept 6.
I haven’t had anything in my vagina in over a month (ok, maybe just the tip), and it’s really starting to BUG ME.
You don’t have to tell me I’m being unreasonable and a spoiled brat – I know.
Last week I went to the doctor and I was hoping he would tell me I was cleared for FUCKING SEXUAL intercourse, but the day was so shitty I knew I wouldn’t get good news, and sure enough, he told me I needed to wait another couple weeks and come back for a check in.
He said my incisions and vagina were healing nicely, but there was a pencil point size mark inside at the seam where the cervix was removed that needed to heal over before I started banging things around in there. I have to admit, it had been so long since I had any penetration that when he inserted the speculum, and then later, jammed his gloved fingers in there to feel around, I got turned on.
But not for long - he said I had a yeast infection. I took the magic yeast-banishing pill that very night, so no worries.
But get this – I’m still feeling the pelvic pain I had before. Don’t get me wrong – I’m still glad I had the surgery, since now I don’t have to worry about periods or getting pregnant anymore.
By Kendra Holliday | October 4, 2012 at 5:22 pm
Eight women, one sissy!
That was the roll call for our Sissy Maid Tea Party the other night.
We had an amazing time! It was a dark and stormy night, but we were all cozy with our tea and cocktails, being well cared for by our sweet Sissy Maid!
The women all wore amazing lingerie, nighties, and feminine finery. I wish I could show you everyone in all their glory, but for privacy’s sake I will only feature pics of Sissy Maid and me.
Well OK, here is a glimpse of his amazing Mistress Foxy, who was kind enough to share his services with us that evening:
Sissy had to point out that she was wearing his pink rose lingerie set – they share costumes.
Here is Sissy Maid serving Tokyo Tea, which was green tea spiked with rum and garnished with sprigs of mint.
By Kendra Holliday | October 3, 2012 at 6:33 am
So here’s the thing.
For years I’ve been searching for an upscale swinger party in St. Louis. The right ambiance is SO important for me to feel sexy and comfortable. I’m sorry, but seedy hotels, sketchy adult movie theaters, and VFW halls just don’t do it for me.
So I’m thrilled to announce I’ve finally found a venue for upscale swinger parties! The first one will be October 20. If it goes well, they plan on having them every six weeks or so!
Here are a few shots of the space, which is a private residence in South St. Louis City:
By Kendra Holliday | September 18, 2012 at 5:39 am
Remember back a year or two ago when I was running around begging people for money for my legal defense fund? I was in such a desperate place back then, and SO appreciated everyone who came forward to help me out during my scary, dark time.
Altogether, over $3000 was raised on my behalf, and my story had a happy ending! My daughter and I are together, and cherishing every moment! (For the record, 1.) GiveForward ROCKS, and 2.) I just now got my lawyer bill down to under $1000!!! Only $935 to go and I can finally kiss that debt goodbye!)
Ever since then, I vowed to myself that if I was able, I would help others out in realizing their dreams, because Karma is Queen!
These days, I’m in a MUCH better place. By no means am I rich, but due to the support of the community hiring me for consultations and whatnot, combined with having an awesome full-time job, I’m able to pay my bills and have a little discretionary income leftover.
Besides my kid, mortgage and bills, here’s what I like to spend money on:
1. Paying off my debts (it sucks, but it still feels good to work toward a goal, plus I hate owing people money! Besides the legal bill, I have my credit card and now my hysterectomy bill to pay off. My goal is to pay those off and then start saving for a new car or furnace, whichever dies first.)
2. Travel (I’ve decided I’m going to Vienna next summer! Never been to Europe, gotta fix that, time to start saving!)
3. Books! (I always check the library first, and any sex books I read get donated to Shameless Grounds library afterward.)
5. Booze and food (hey, it’s part of responsible hedonism, right?)
How about you? What are some of your not-so-guilty pleasures?
Lately, I’ve been indulging in a new hobby. Rather than buy into extrinsic happiness (designer handbags, shoes, perfume, clothes, jewelry), I indulge my intrinsic happiness (giving to others). This is where the crowdfunding addiction comes into play.
By Kendra Holliday | August 25, 2012 at 11:10 am
August 26 is Go Topless Day.
Demonstrations are happening all over the world, including Columbia MO. Heck, there might be a demo happening in St. Louis, but I wouldn’t know – I’m in Memphis with my dear Shine Goodie, no doubt getting my lesbian on.
Here’s a pic Mike Estes took of David Wraith and me to commemorate the cause.
Thank you to David for making this happen. Thank you to everyone who supports Topless Equality!
By Kendra Holliday | August 22, 2012 at 5:52 am
This Friday night at 8pm pst and 10pm cst, I’ll be hosting my debut show of The Beautiful Kind, as part of the MoFos podcast series!
Spice Radio provides listeners “edgy, explicit adult content and entertainment.” Brought to Sirius XM Satellite Radio by the producers of Spice TV, the channel will feature “unique talent and daily live, call-in shows that take you into the world of adult entertainment.” Looking at Spice Radio’s programming lineup, the channel appears to be much more risqué than Sirius XM’s Playboy Radio channel, fully taking advantage of Satellite Radio’s uncensored freedom.
That’s a good thing – I’m interviewing Jade, one of the most provocative women in St. Louis!
Have you ever read her blog “Pieces of Jade“? Please don’t – it makes me look vanilla, and frankly that’s embarrassing.
Listeners to the show can call in and get involved in the conversation – the number is 1-800-774-2388.
Our topic? BDSM in the real world! The 50 Shades of Grey trilogy has taken the nation by storm. It seems like women are rabidly curious over the fantasy of BDSM – but can they handle the reality? Let’s find out!
Jade walks the walk and talks the talk – caning, whipping, chained in dungeon, tied to a fence, piss play – the works.
Why does she do that? What kind of person is she? Does she have a day job? Is she a mother? What kind of people are the men she plays with? What are her limits? What are her favorite toys and methods of torture? Does she have a safeword? What turns her on? HOW did she get so in touch with her sexuality?
We’ll see how this show goes. If it’s well-received, I’ll be on the air every six weeks or so, featuring other great Beautiful Kindof guests such as my partner Matthew, and David Wraith. Who would you like me to interview? It doesn’t have to be a local person.
Wish me luck, I’m excited!
By Kendra Holliday | August 17, 2012 at 5:54 am
Continued from previous post…
We arrived at Hustler’s Taboo night.
Thankfully, we were mature enough not to let anything interfere with our great evening, which is a good thing, because it got better every second…
Taboo was crowded and full of activity. They have quite a bit of equipment – a rope suspension section, couches, spanking benches, St. Andrews Crosses. All were in use, but soon a spanking bench opened up, and we seized it.
I went first so she could watch and get used to the energy of the place. She had some BDSM experience, but nothing public.
I eagerly bent over the bench. I was wearing a sexy little business top and skirt. The skirt hem was asymmetrical, so when I walked or bent over, you could see where my lace stockings met my pale thighs.
He worked me over, grabbing my hair, spanking me, lavishing me with good, hard attention.
I got hot and ripped off my top and bra. Lana glanced around surprised. They allow nudity here!
It was so stimulating and exhilarating! I kept laughing and giggling.
He pinned my arms behind my back and instructed Lana to tend to my top as he tended to my bottom. This guy parked himself right in front of me and stared hard. Not a problem, but he was a little too close for our comfort, so Lana stood at my head, providing a barrier between us. I’m sure he didn’t mind her ass in his face.
We were buzzed and happy.
Next, it was her turn. She had been smacked on the ass during sex, but never had a spanking like this.
By Kendra Holliday | July 31, 2012 at 6:11 am
So here’s how Saturday went down.
I don’t ride a bike, and I’m really fucking busy.
Because I’m busy, I missed the previous four World Naked Bike Rides that took place in St. Louis.
Finally, this year, I decided to bite the bullet and overbook myself, so I attended the WNBR pre-party, then went to Shine Goodie’s poetry event, then a good friend’s salsa concert.
Before that, I reported a church gas leak in my neighborhood, took a sick cat to be euthanized because no one else could handle it, prepped for my daughter’s fantasy costume party, and fielded my brother’s latest soap opera installment (his crazy ex texted him a pic of her bloody miscarriage chunk, then later called my mom to assure her she was still pregnant and would the family like psycho breeder updates? I told the family to read up on stalker behavior.)
I showed up at the WNBR pre-party fully dressed and a little stressed. As soon as David Wraith finished wrangling signs and setting up the SEX+STL photo booth, he transitioned to party animal mode.
He turned to me and said, “C’mon let’s get this party started. Take your clothes off with me.”
Startled, I exclaimed, “What, now? We’re just standing around. There’s no call for nudity at this point.”
“”It’s the pre-party for a socially accepted naked event!” he scoffed, “so let me exercise my misogynistic rights by urging you to GET NAKED.”
You don’t have to ask me twice, David. OK, maybe he asked three times.
I did what every woman does when their brother from another mother tells them to disrobe – I got naked.
Let me tell you, it felt weird to be standing in a parking lot off S. Grand in the buff.
It felt even WEIRDER to have some random kid practically break his neck staring at me, and for lots of creepy-looking older men stand there and take pictures of me like I was a piece of meat for them to jerk off to later.
One guy felt guilty and came up to me and confessed he just took a pic of me using his cell phone, and was that okay? Touched, I told him it was.
I wonder what they would have thought if I walked up to them and snapped pics of them in all their naked – ahem – glory. Would it make them feel weird? Would they be flattered?
I have to admit, I felt uncomfortable. My nudity felt forced at that point. I knew I was okay with it, but what about all the other people around me? What about the children??
For sure there were tons of people there who came out for the naked freak show, but there were also unsuspecting passers-by and neighbors to consider as well.
In fact, it turns out the neighbors complained to the police camped out supervising the event.