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Got a sex, relationship, BDSM or fetish related question? TBK is a sexpert with over 20 years experience and is happy for you to learn from her mistakes while soaking up her hard earned wisdom. Best of all, commenters also contribute their opinions and offer different perspectives to often complicated issues.

How Do I Give A Compliment?

What's the best way to give a compliment to a Lady?

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Does Size Matter?

Is my penis big enough? Do women prefer big dicks? Are you a size queen? How big is the average penis? Is there a site where I can compare my penis to others? Does any man ever actually admit they have a small penis? How do I enlarge my penis?

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Can Creepy Men Be Cured?

I don't know about you, but I know a lot of creepy men. What makes a man creepy? Can creepy men be cured? Or, once a creep, always a creep? Have you ever met a creepy woman?

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How Do I Conceive?

I've been married to my wonderful husband for six years and we have a great house and great jobs. Life is great! There's only one thing missing - we've been trying to have a baby for the past two years. Trying to get pregnant has almost become an obsession for me. It's taken the fun out of sex. People give us all sorts of...

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What is a Sex Surrogate?

How can I be a better lover if I don't currently have someone I can practice with? I haven't touched another person in eight months. Why did my last two girlfriends say I was terrible in bed? How do I please a woman? I've learned my moves from watching porn - my parents sure as heck didn't talk to me about sex. Am I good at...

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Why Is Love Complicated?

Have you ever had to break up with someone you were still in love with?

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Is My Girlfriend Cheating on Me?

I met my current girlfriend at a strip club 3.5 years ago. Had no intention of any relationship with her, but after 6 months of non - sexual contact, read no sex, we did the deed. (By the way I was married at the time for 22 years.) Guess what? We, and I do mean <strong>we</strong> fell in love. However, after that, the problems...

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Is My Girlfriend Cheating on Me? (Guest Post)

Hi Penny, Very nice and informative site. I met my current girlfriend at a strip club 3.5 years ago. Had no intention of any relationship with her, but after 6 months of non - sexual contact, read no sex, we did the deed. (By the way I was married at the time for 22 years.) Guess what? We, and I do mean <strong>we</strong> fell...

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Teeth During a Blowjob - Yay or Nay?

My mouth isn’t all that big and my guy’s dick, well, is. I tend to be over-careful when attending him so that he only feels the “soft parts” of my mouth. But that’s just not possible at some angles. For example, when I’m lying down - because of his curvature he hits my top back molars and I can’t do anything about it. The first time I freaked...

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How Do I Host a Masturbation Party?

I am curious about masturbation parties. I've heard of this in Florida but I'm too far from there. I wondered how difficult it might be to start one in my own area? I am thinking 10 or more people in a social gathering talking about different subjects, getting to know each other, then moving on to stripping and masturbation while...

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