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Got a sex, relationship, BDSM or fetish related question? TBK is a sexpert with over 20 years experience and is happy for you to learn from her mistakes while soaking up her hard earned wisdom. Best of all, commenters also contribute their opinions and offer different perspectives to often complicated issues.

Is There a Site Like Yours for Gay Men?

I'm in the military but I'm also bisexual. I have a boyfriend and have been with him for five months now and was wondering if you have any sex tips for homosexual sex. Specifically, the science and secrets that pleasure the bottom man and the best ways the top partner can fulfill his lover.

Written on July 12, 2010 | 7 Comments

How Can I Orgasm During Sex?

I'm a 25 yr old guy and I have a new girlfriend. Things are going well with one exception: I've been completely unable to cum through sex and the sensations I'm getting are nowhere near what I need. I've always had this problem, but she's one of the first people I feel comfortable enough to talk about it with and she wants...

Written on July 1, 2010 | 24 Comments

What's With Judgment Day?

I am a poly, open, bi swinger woman. I've been bi my whole life and found it uncomfortable to tell my straight, monogamous friends because of the reactions I received - which ranged from incredulous to insulting. My family thought it was the end of the world, my guys friends thought it was cool and my female friends alternated...

Written on June 14, 2010 | 99 Comments

How Do You Pull Off Preggo Sex?

Any advice for how to have good preggo sex? Last night should have been awesome. I was in this great phase where my nipples were really sensitive and I thought I'd come the second my husband licked one. But then when we got down to business my belly was touching his belly and it just killed it for me. We changed positions but I couldn...

Written on April 22, 2010 | 30 Comments

How Do You Get Used to Condoms?

The other day I hooked up with a guy. We were making out and wrestling around. He fingered and ate me really well, then it was time for the sexing to commence. That bastard tried to fuck me without a condom! I was like, "Uh, no dude, you gotta use a condom." So he slapped one on and immediately lost his erection. He said he had too...

Written on April 15, 2010 | 34 Comments

What's With The Salt Lick?

I’ve tasted almost every girl I’ve been with. I love eating them, knowing that I’m giving them pleasure. Hell, sometimes I get so turned on about it that I almost finish myself while tonguing them. Of course, my last girlfriend was no exception - I went down on her the first night we met. She was bold down there, just the way I like it. She was...

Written on March 30, 2010 | 45 Comments

What Are Your Relationship Rules?

I am new to polyamory. I wish to know how communication works when it comes to new gfs/bfs/lovers you're not sharing with your partner. How much information do you divulge about your experiences? I'd like to know some examples of how the topic is handled. Does it sometimes becomes uncomfortable in some way? In other words, do you have...

Written on March 21, 2010 | 56 Comments

How Do I Give A Compliment?

What's the best way to give a compliment to a Lady?

Written on January 27, 2010 | 29 Comments

Does Size Matter?

Is my penis big enough? Do women prefer big dicks? Are you a size queen? How big is the average penis? Is there a site where I can compare my penis to others? Does any man ever actually admit they have a small penis? How do I enlarge my penis?

Written on January 18, 2010 | 33 Comments

Can Creepy Men Be Cured?

I don't know about you, but I know a lot of creepy men. What makes a man creepy? Can creepy men be cured? Or, once a creep, always a creep? Have you ever met a creepy woman?

Written on January 10, 2010 | 96 Comments