Is my penis big enough? Do women prefer big dicks? Are you a size queen? How big is the average penis? Is there a site where I can compare my penis to others? Does any man ever actually admit they have a small penis? How do I enlarge my penis?
Lucky you - I answer all these questions and more in my latest article for SexIs magazine:
Please run along and check it out - it's full of fun facts and links and will hopefully put your mind at ease. Let me know what you think!
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Thanks to aag for the awesome image!
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Historygirl
Sweet Article! It is so true- I'm always amazed when guys express shame over their penises while comparing them to some mythical standard. A measurement is not a good considerate lover whose wit and sparkling personality make them continually desirable.
Also- I like your quote from Timothy DeLaGhetto- taste is so much more important than size.
The Beautiful Kind
I'll take a delicious, multi-purpose penis over a monster cock that won't fit in my mouth any day!
Tin Plated Hero
Agreed... It really is an excellent article, TBK. I especially love this quote, "That’s advice from my primary partner. He has an average size dick, but it’s on an above average man."
I think it's the best advice that you can give. A large penis is not a sexual experience. I can find a latex version of a large penis, or the vagina of a porn star, but without a creative mind to go along with the parts... well, to quote an old commercial, "parts is parts."
It's likely hard to get people to take it and really believe it, but it is some very good advice.
The Beautiful Kind
Thank you, TPH! Glad you liked that part. This topic is near and dear to me, so I had a lot of fun writing it. My next article will be about premature ejaculation. I swain I have dick on the brain!
the velvet lilly
Words to Live By:
Une grand baton does not a meastro make.
and in my experience....the men with the enormous cocks have ZERO knowledge on how to use it..... nor do they, most often, care about using it well...they can be so impressed with thmselves they don't have any desire or inkling that pace, tempo, flow, dynamic, excecution, technique, emotional involvement and INTENT
have much more to do with a mind blowing experience than size ever will.
Rock the cock....but rock the experience and revel in it more....and we will love you for it. xoxoxo
isabella
agreed! enormous cocks must leave very little room in the brain for creativity and passion.....
The Beautiful Kind
I have no interest in being with someone who's more into his dick than me.
Historygirl
I fear that many if not most sexual beings have that experience. I know I have. Isn't the point to share?
Buzzie
Since most men, myself included, only climax once per sexual event, I prefer to do whats necessary to bring the lady to climax before "letting myself go". I, however, need to know that I am doing that and a woman who is not vocal or ...able to communicate nonverbally that she is climaxing or reaching her peak so to speak can be a real turn off.
Swedishskier
You ever go to a bakery where they have some deliciously decadent looking dessert that's all decorated beautifully and your mouth just waters looking at it. Half the time if you actually spring for that dessert, its not that great. I think that's what big penises are like. They're pretty. Shiny. BIG. But that doesn't mean you're going to enjoy them. Ever eat dirt cake. Delicious. Looks like dirt. For the record, I don't think other sized penises look like dirt, but they don't get your eyes all excited necessarily. That is until you experience them. Then its about the experience and the more you've experienced them the more your eyes start to see them as the cake at the bakery that actually delivers. And your mouth waters. Mmmmm.
The Beautiful Kind
HA! You're making me hungry. I want to eat dessert first! GIMME DIRT CAKE over a big cheesecake any day!
the velvet lilly
mmmmm...:::ponders smearing herself in dirt cake::::::
Buzzie I totally hear you! I think it's about responsibility and giving to share with a lover what's working....encouraging and being vocal about what's working...what you like and want...what you need....
girl who can't speak up will never be fulfilled....and that's sad. (and frustrating as hell for partners I'm sure)
TheFWord
This is what both Lilly and I love to do for each other. Nothing turns me on more than to be texting her and getting her so wound up that she tells me how muc she needs to hear my voice. Then hearing her answer in that breathy, husky tone of voice that curls my toes. I love her tellling me what she want to hear, or needs to hear. I love listening to her responses and figuring out what she needs and she does the same oh so well for me.
Beast
This post reminded me of this 3 minute clip. You have to take it all in to get the full effect.
http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/5ef1adb57b/between-two-ferns-with-zach-...
Beast
PS: I love my penis.
The Beautiful Kind
I love your penis too!!!!! But I think everyone already knows that.
The Beautiful Kind
OMG Zach sure does play a creepy dude well! HAHAHHA
isabella
Amen to that. I'd rather have a grower than a shower any day. I like the feel of it growing in my mouth. And it's more fun for me(and probably him) if I can fit it ALL THE WAY IN my mouth or ALL THE WAY IN my pussy.
I would never make fun of someone for a God-given body part. I've had huge ones and even came across a micropenis. The big guys are usually full of themselves so no work there. The tiny guy? I didn't bat an eye, a penis is a penis it still worked. If he had the balls (hee!) to pull it out, I was willing to play! He never apologized for it and I would have not liked it if he had. Confidence is so much more attractive...It's never the size of the battleship, it's the plan of the attack.
aphrodite
It's a personal taste. some women do prefer a larger unit, some don't care, some prefer smaller.
There's someone for everyone.
And yes, I agree, it's confidence that's the sexiest regardless of size.
The Beautiful Kind
I'm backing you up here, sister:
"There's someone for everyone."
Swedishskier
Its too bad the micro penis guys and the women with that vag clamping painful awful thing don't just automatically smell each other out. I really don't know what that's called, but it seems like it'd be a good fit.
K
So if you're saying that men should be confident about their penis size, why are so many women so insecure about breast size?
I personally prefer smaller breasts (A or B cup) but women that size so often seem to think they "need" their breasts enlarged to be attractive to men.
I have nothing against large breasts, but I really dislike artificial ones. If penis enlargement surgery existed, I certainly would not want to have a surgically-enhanced, "fake" looking penis.
So why do women want surgically-enhanced, "fake" looking breasts?
The velvet lilly
K, ( all hail K!...... Sorry, I so seldom get to use that MIB line in conversation)
Penis enlargement surgery does exist- and I think I've felt it before ( poor schmuck tried to tell me it was his V scar)
And it felt like- a plastic penis extension.
And you just can't compare boobs to cocks.
I don't know any woman insecure about her tit size ( and certainly not as affected- and effected as a man with a small dick)
I celebrate beautiful body parts of every size. Key word being beautiful.
oldmidwesternguy
So this is a new version of calling women with large breast stupid and stuck up. Average penis good, big penis bad.I am sure you feel you made all the little guys feel better.
The fact is you have chosen a man before you really know either way.
Somebody said they want one they can get all the way into their vagina. Is it really possible to have one that will not go in?
Silky
"It's not the size of the worm... it's the way it wiggles."
Seriously, I personally prefer an "average" dick, to a large one .. mainly because big ones can't wiggle much. And even if they CAN, they don't, because most guys with big dicks have this attitude of "Me big dick, you small woman, you take big dick and like it!" ... or something. But its like they think that because they are big, that's all there is to it, we should fall to their feet in stunned orgasms-a-plenty simply because of the awesomeness of his size, right? Wrong!!
Beyond that and my .. ahem.. delicate opinions, I think that size DOES matter but there is something for everyone. Wider set vagina's want bigger dicks. Some women are deeper, some men are shorter. Some women are tighter some men are cousins to a horse. Some men you want to get out your tweezers and say, "OMG its so cute!!!" but some women would far prefer that. Some women are turned on by the sensation of being completely filled to bursting, relishing the "day after" soreness as a reminder of past pleasures... and others resent being sore the next day and are upset that they can't go at it again and again just because he is so big.
So while everyone has their opinion, I think that in reality, size does matter to a certain extent, but there is someone for every size.
Personally? I just want it to be hard, shaved, eager, and last a while :-)
the velvet lilly
Oldmidwesternguy....
you're jumping to alot of conclusions..and false data.
neither stereotype equates or validates the other....(stereotypes YOU have brought up by the way....nice goin)
Silky has it right....please heed her words.....as well as TBKs wisdom.
Something here has obviously touched an emotional bone...with you....but your correlations are from you alone.
IT IS about the man....but it is also about preference ......I've allready stated what I prefer.....and no one of us is wrong for liking what we like....
it's no reason to be bitter.....use what ya got....use it well...with respect...and imagination...and everyone's happy.
being bitter about stereotypes or anything else will never give you fireworks in the bedroom.....work the kinks out!
The Beautiful Kind
Yep, I think I touched a sensitive bone with oldmidwesternguy!
Ben
Size doesn't matter ? Tell that to my sexy insurance agent who's hubby has a 5" cock.
She cums almost immediately when I slide my cock into her real slow but forcefully...It's not huge (8" & 5.5" around) I know this because more than one have measured it lol
But it's big enough to get her fucking attention immediately
As a matter of fact... in 20 years of sliding this big cock into hot married women , I have yet to meet one that didn't comment on the size and how they loved it. Nor have I ever fucked one that didn't come back for more.
Size matters... no doubt
the velvet lilly
Ben... in a few words.... you're an idiot.
Sorry all... I just had to say it.
The Beautiful Kind
No Velvet Lilly - Ben is A TOTAL STUD!!!!
ha ha
The velvet Lilly
Hee hee, TBK yer gonna make me choke on my Cherios!
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