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You Are The Beautiful Kind: Graydancer

I met Graydancer, Ninja Sex Poodle & Ronin of Love, at Spanksgiving, where he gave several bondage presentations. He was by far one of the best presenters at the conference - truly engaging, entertaining, and great at what he does.

Age: 40

Websites:

Graydancer
Ropecast
Novel eStore

Orientation:

Selectively Bi

Relationship Status:

Polyamorous

Favorite physical feature on yourself:

My hands

Tattoos/piercings:

Kabuki tattoo on left arm

Are you a tits, ass, pussy, etc. man?

Yes. And eyes, too. I find my tastes are gradually changing - I tend to be more an ass man lately than a boob man. Not sure why...but I'm happy to experiment and find out.

Are you cut or uncut?

Cut. Not by choice.

Charity you support:

NCSF http://www.ncsfreedom.org/

What game did you like playing as a kid?

Dungeons & Dragons, Atari

When was the last time you cried?

About a month ago, during one of "those talks" with a significant other.

What do you want to learn/add to what you already know?

How to fly a glider.

Special skill/talent, what are you really good at (non-sexual):

Public Speaking

Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (sexual)

Cunilingus, based on my partners' opinion

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

15

What are your masturbation habits? How often? Where? Props?

2-3 times a week, depending on my partner's availability; usually need a bit of lube and a bit of good erotica.

What do you fantasize about? What's your fetish? What turns you on?

I fantasize about group sex, usually in a dominant/submissive context, but in terms of what actually turns me on in practice it's connection - whatever works for that. Usually it's rope, or some kind of combination of pleasure/pain/words. What I want to have is a transcendent sexual experience.

What was one of the hottest moments of your life?

Hmm...probably untying my lover from a cross at the end of a scene while she sang "Creep" softly to me.

What would you do at an orgy?

Watch, probably. Orgies are really not my thing (and yes, that is different in my head than "group sex").

You have one night to completely pleasure your lover. What do you do?

Depends on which lover, I guess. It might involve lots and lots of fucking; it might involve dirty talk and painful rope; it might involve all of the above. Now, if she were going to completely pleasure me, it would involve dance, some intellectual talk, some elegant service, rope, submission, cigars & whiskey, impact play, struggle, oral sex, violent fucking, sensuous cuddling, and then repeating whatever part of that we wanted. Breaks for ice cream or rare-cooked steak would also be nice...and of course, the morning would start with pancakes. Mmmm, pancakes...I'm sorry, what was the question again?