You Are The Beautiful Kind: The Velvet Lilly

Age: 39

Sex: Female

Orientation:

Ambi-sexual. I love men and appreciate the beauty of women- but I'm very choosy and there has to be a connection to go for a lady.

Relationship Status:

In a relationship

Favorite physical feature on yourself:

My eyes and my breasts - I've won bets when people insist they're fake (even Owen Wilson, who later apologized) and my dear friend TheFWord who introduced me to your blog loves my voice.

Tattoos/piercings:

Ears, and one tattoo on my inner left forearm

Beauty tip:

Shower, floss and groom my friends....a nice trim is appreciated , I like smoooth clean skin in my mouth. mmmmm smooth clean sweaty skin....

Charity you support:

Literacy programs and Katrina relief

Did you have an imaginary friend growing up?

No I never did- I played with barbies by myself alot....but never an imaginary friend.....imaginary lovers...that's another story....<G> There was also an ongoing game of vampire mermaids I played with the girls next door. Swimming in the lake, getting "captured" and bitten on the neck...::shiver::: and a kiss would set me free. (the really crazy part of this story? they were Mennonites) The first real kiss from a girl , come to thin of it, was in a pool....go figure......

If you could take a class for fun right now, what would you take?

Piano, French and Ariel work!!! and maybe an advanced pole class.... it's sooo sexy and makes you so strong..

What do you want to learn/add to what you already know?

French, pole work, more stunt work, dance class always - hand to hand and a few swords.... and of course, one can never stop learning about sexual performance...bring it on. I want to learn FEO.

What is one of the bravest things you have ever done?

Taking care of my mother in the hospital, making the decision to put my mare down.....that may never stop hurting. I've danced in Vegas and auditioned for big directors......nerve wracking yes..but Life things take more nerve, I think. And I also think my friends would have different answers to this....what some think of as brave in me, I may not notice.....

Special skill/talent, what are you really good at (non-sexual):

Cooking, Dancing, Roleplaying (getting into a role), being a gracious hostess who puts people at ease, public speaking, performing, writing, standing up for what I feel is right and keeping Southern Charm and grace alive in LA (<<so says TheFWord)

Special skill/talent, what are you really good at? (sexual)

I've been told I could suck the chrome off a bumper when I was 16..... (and then Jenny McCarthy did it on SNL! hee hee hee) Kissing, and exploring. I have an empathy for touch and what feels good to others as I do it.

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

13 .... it was a truly wonderful experience - I am very lucky.... it was my choice.....

The last time you had sex, and with whom:

Last night with my self with TheFWord on the phone as we watched a hardcore BDSM gang bang porn clip you posted...good gods some of that was offputting..and some was off the Richter scale hot!!!!!! That will sear my brain with get myself off fodder for years to come.

What type of person are you into?

Powerful, intelligent, he has to make me laugh and have a sharp wit or a wickedly good imagination, can express himself well and knows me better than I know myself....can teach me and challenge me - bring me to new heights- well traveled and must love good food and wine. He should be equally at home camping near half dome and having drinks at the Peninsula. I'm a sucker for blonde hair and blue eyes- and an accent is a plus, from high Cajun to a classy Southern drawl (yes there is such a thing ) to a fyne Scottish brogue or an English clip......it goes: eyes, lips, voice, hands.. I love good strong elegant but manly sexy hands.....the better to pull my hair with, hold me down or lift me up....a cock big enough to impress me but not rip me or make me gag too easily....(I've dated a few VERY big boys..they never know how to use them- or care) A man strong enough to allow himself to be weak.....and the grace and intellect to know when that is. If you fancy yourself a Dom- I ask only this...Impress me! (no really..impress me....you telling me how Dom you are only means you have a high opinion of YOU...which bores me- I have yet to meet a man who is a REAL honest - knows what the head game is really all about Dom./ Master) My three favorite words: Imagination, Exploration, Anticipation. I love classy women with lean strong yet feminine bodies..... sexy eyes and knowledge of themselves. I prefer tanned willowy lasses, taller than me so those long legs can wrap around me......but easy enough with her self to enjoy getting her hands dirty. Beautiful breasts and a giving nature with full puffy lips up and downstairs that can be my cupcake dessert.

What do you fantasize about? What's your fetish? What turns you on?

I fantasize about a lover of mine who is a true maestro (good gods) ...or about random scenarios. Class turns me on....elegance and refinement while still being masculine. A man concentrating on just about anything is hot - dancers, riders, cooking, playing an instrument...that skill in excellence. Sexy voices turn me ON....that husky male "I'm hard as a rock" breathy voice men get..:::shiver::: a man who knows how to talk dirty to me in bed or on the phone ( or in a game...)......being submissive - well.....being languidly acquiescent ......there's a fine line to me between telling me what to do as a gesture of mastery, benevolence and sharing in a sexual role and someone ordering me around without understanding the whats' and whyfores......then it's just having sexual staff.....and I don't need to be an employee. I fantasize about a threesome with two men adoring me....fucking me , moving and turning me, supporting me for the other.....watching them fuck each other (strong straight handsome men getting a beautiful hard cock in the ass while eating me is a huge fantasy) I fantasize about a man bringing me a sweet blonde thing, trembling underneath me....strapping on and taking that girl over the edge.....another threesome craving...... (hear that TheFWord darlin?) writing this is getting me so wet.....oh my.....

What was one of the hottest moments of your life?

The very first time I had sex with an old lover.......the anticipation had been building for almost a year.... not sure when he 'd actually make the first move. Late at night in a luxe hotel...stretched out on his bed and aching for him to touch me when out of the blue, from behind me he attacked - he scooped me into his arms with a growl of not being able to take it any more...the luscious weight of him on me, devouring my lips...I felt like a little bird.......and then he slowly....excruciatingly....pulled off my jeans....... reverently pushed me face down on the bed...and slowly....strong and deliberate...peeled down my white cosa bella g-string......allready drenched.....and, so slow he made me swoon...climbed over me....sliding his hands up me....spread my legs and just let that first contact be the tip of his hard cock against my arched, aching pounding pussy......... the waiting....the wetness, the wanting.....the teasing and prolonging........it was the biggest rush of my life.......and then that sweet flood gate explosion as we started to fuck..............that was the start of hours and hours of mind blowing , knowing my body better than I did sex............. :::::::remembering....shudder:::::::: Recently, I had the following experience with a new lover: He told me he wanted to come on my face. He said it was about feeling like I was taking care of him (a curious thought, since a facial can be considered a degrading act). I happily and hungrily obliged in the shower - where we love to spend a lot of time talking, laughing, fucking, cuddling... After reading the Sensual Dom's piece on aggressive submission it was a lovely thought to really just give ....relinquish.......let go......acquiesce ......just worship on him..... the look on his face just before he came all over my cheeks was one of wonder and awe mixed with fear like a child going over the top of a roller coaster. There was no secret degradation at all... no hint of anything but the image he was seeing...the emotion and the sensations..... it was so beautiful.

Any regrets?

Many. Mostly for being too gullible about predator men. And some deep regrets for not standing up for myself to family dynamics. It's funny.... I am willing and eager to talk about the hardest, most taboo, delicious raunchy naughty slutty things here.....but to talk about family hurts....that's a bit too close to the heart for here.....

Why do you think I chose you for YATBK?

My enthusiasm...........and I'm a lady with stories to tell..........and a lady willing to learn....