Extreme Makeovers: Are You Ready for One?

By Kendra Holliday | August 31, 2011 at 7:15 am

These photos of David Wraith were taken about five years apart:

As you can see, he made the choice to go from ordinary, to extraordinary. It was a lifestyle change.

This pic of me:

was taken about five hours before this one:

WOW what a huge difference!

Ever since I shaved my head in May, I’ve enjoyed experimenting with many different looks. One day I’ll be a bombshell. The next, I’ll look like a mom. Or a boi. Or Chucky from Child’s Play (that’s what David Wraith said I looked like in my orange wig, stripey shirt and overalls costume.)

Today I’m sporting the hippie look on my way to a modeling gig, and then I will sit naked for three hours in front of a bunch of college students.. Tonight for the girl pile, I’ll be in bombshell mode with thigh high stockings. Or maybe I’ll go wigless – take it from me, doing an orgy in a wig is distracting – I’m always worried that it’s shifting and looks silly.

Rachel W Cole mused on twitter the other day, “Wondering what percentage of women you know actually love their body?”

I replied, “I know plenty of women who celebrate their bodies! Our bodies are vehicles for pleasure! Not gonna let a poochy tummy or stretch marks slow us down!”

It’s so easy for me to change my outward appearance. I know my inner beauty will shine through, no matter how dorky I look. I realize my body is temporary and subject to change. I’m happy to go with the flow.

If an extreme makeover is too much for you, then consider making a small change and see how it feels.

For instance, a jerk I was dating six years ago who was really into tattoos and piercings talked me into getting my ears pierced. He dumped me two months later, but for six years now, I’ve had the same small, dull silver hoops in my ears.

Then last month I had to take them out for an MRI I did to see if I was eligible for a metabolism study (I wasn’t; at 39% body fat, I wasn’t lean enough), and in the process, lost one of the earrings.

So then I was walking around like a sad pirate with one hoop. I had one earring to my name.

SO I went shopping with a girlfriend and found some incredibly sparkly, irridescent studs for only $17. I think they are magical.

I wish I would have replaced those dull hoops long ago. They carried some bad memories with them.

I love my sparkle ears!

 

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Kendra 2011-08-31 14:04:46

I just made a youtube video showing off my new earrings: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Mwsn1X3sx0&feature=youtube_gdata_player
My super fat cat makes a cameo!

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    Tashlan 2011-09-01 01:50:28

    The physical objects you keep around you are the accumulation of your thoughts and beliefs. They represent an investment of energy on your part. Look around you, what do your possessions say about you? Want to make a change in your life? Think for a moment about how you spend your energy. What energies are tied up in the things around you?

    VISUALIZE it first; really picture what you want to happen as if it IS happening. Then look around you, what physical changes correspond? What possessions sit like anchors, holding you to past beliefs, old patterns? As you begin MANIFESTing the change, remove or replace those items. As you rearrange your life, rearrange your furniture, your possessions. Commit yourself to your new ideas, they will work just as efficiently for you as the old ones did. Don’t just pull the weeds, plant something new!

    This should take no more that 10-15 minutes out of your day. And then? FORGET about it. Go on with your daily life secure in the knowledge your efforts are bringing change. Don’t dwell on the past or on your fears or worries. Keep moving forward!

    And when the new opportunity you’ve created arrives, ACT on it! You brought it into being, now make it your own, make it physical, make it real. Charge the items in your life with positive thoughts, motives. When you no longer need those things; move on, pass them on, it is someone else’s turn. They will find their way to them just as they found their way to you.

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SheepDog45 2011-08-31 14:06:04

You are beautiful no matter what you look like, and don’t you ever forget it! And I’d be willing to bet that “bald at the orgy” will get you more attention than you can handle! :smile:

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Isabella 2011-08-31 15:25:57

out with the old, in with the new! you always sparkle, xoxoxo

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Hypocrite 2011-08-31 16:28:10

Oddly, I find David more attactive in his “before” picture.

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    davidwraith 2011-08-31 17:06:32

    So did the boys at JJ’s.

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