Going to Swinger Paradise

By Kendra Holliday | November 6, 2015

Guess what? I’m a Finalist for the Sexual Freedom Awards this year in London!

Unfortunately, I won’t be able to attend the ceremony next week because I will be celebrating my sexual freedom in … Mexico!

One of my goals for this year was to go to an all-inclusive resort in Mexico, preferably with a clothing optional beach. A month ago, it didn’t look like I would achieve that goal, but then all of a sudden, I got an email from Cooper Beckett of Life on the Swingset, offering me an amazing opportunity:

From 11/7-11/14 we are taking over about 2/3rds of Desire Resort and Spa in Cancun with Swingsetters. This is our fourth trip, and every year we’ve been proud of how it’s grown, and the wonderful variety of kinksters and non-monogamy practitioners in attendance.

Today we learned sadly that a couple would not be able to attend this year’s trip. So we find ourselves with a free room for the week.

We scrambled and came up with a list of people we’d like to invite to spend the week with us, knowing that the fact that it’s a month away might make it a long shot. You are one of the people we’d love to have there, so we were wondering if it is possible/feasible/etc, if you’d like to know more, all that.

Desire is a wonderful all inclusive clothing optional resort for couples. They have the amenities of Sandals, along with a playroom and disco, and lax attitude about people having sex on premises.

I checked my calendar, and incredibly, I was pretty open that week. Next, I checked with my partner. Since he already had a business trip scheduled during that time (SO BUMMED), I asked him if he would be okay with me going solo. I thought for sure he wouldn’t be down with it – imagine if YOUR partner wanted to go to a naked swinger resort like this for a week without you!

Desire Resorts in Mexico, photo by Cooper Beckett

Desire Resorts in Mexico, photo by Cooper Beckett

He said YES. Holy shit, what a King among men! That gesture takes the compersion cake, ladies and gentlemen!

So I booked my flight!

Orgies by moonlight. Photo by Cooper Beckett

Orgies by moonlight. Photo by Cooper Beckett

Not many people get a chance like this – I am SO grateful for my sexual freedom. I get to cross another thing off my “Fuck It” list!

I don’t know what all I’ll do, but I do know I’ll be taking part in a pegging gang bang – I’ve got my condoms and strapon packed (and very few clothes 🙂 ) !!

There will be parties every night, a 100-person hot tub with a swim up bar, and podcasts and sexy seminars to attend, such as sex swing demos and flogging fun. Needless to say, I’m leaving my laptop at home!

What's going to happen in this room??

What’s going to happen in this room??

This will also be cathartic for me – when I was 21 (half my life ago!), I went to Cancun with my husband-to-be. We decided to be daring and visit a Mexican whorehouse so we could have a threesome. NONE of the women would have sex with me, so I ended up watching him fuck a gorgeous, sullen whore while I sat in the corner, and I was too immature to handle it well. Kindof ruined the trip, but it did add more fuel to my cuckqueaning fetish… I’ve come a long way, baby!

Right before I head out of town, I’m going to see Carmina Burana – what an epic sendoff!

No doubt I’ll have plenty to be thankful for at Thanksgiving. Don’t look for any tan lines when I return! 🙂

Comments

kat&mark 2015-11-06 09:13:39

It’s a great place – you’ll have a blast!
(jealously) M&K

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AlanK 2015-11-09 11:46:09

I have heard everything about Desire from “it’s a nonstop orgy” to “I never got laid.” I’m hoping for a detailed report, but…. You’re a sexy woman and–I’ve always thought–a flirty woman. You’ll get laid. Maybe you can do some reporting as well and give us a glimpse of what it’s like for the average would-be-sexy person. We’re thinking very seriously about going there, but if what you get is a week in the sun and some naked sunbathing it is damn expensive.

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Matt 2015-11-11 16:05:08

It’s so crazy that you are at Desire! I was just talking to Amy about planning a vacation there! It sounds great, but I’d have to agree with Alan – some objective reporting from someone in the know would be great!

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    Kendra Holliday 2015-11-14 15:45:08

    I will post a detailed report soon, but for now, I can assure you that if you book your trip to Desire with the Life on the Swingset Crew Nov 5-12, 2016, you will have a BLAST. This week I experienced things I never imagined! The energy with this group is so good!!!

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Scorpio 2015-11-12 07:21:28

Wow!! I never heard of the place but it’s on my bucket list now!! Have a great fucking time!!

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Duncan 2015-11-16 12:04:13

It was great meeting you there.
Perhaps a repeat trip next year? You could even bring your partner along 😉

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    Duncan 2015-11-16 12:05:49

    … and if you are ever in the Boston/Providence area, please let us know!

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      Kendra Holliday 2015-11-18 07:49:24

      YES for sure!

      Reply

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