By Kendra Holliday | October 7, 2013 at 3:35 pm
A couple weeks ago, I went to the Omega Women in Power Retreat in New York.
Before I left, my partner Matthew and I talked about our comfort levels as far as playing or dating others while we were apart.
We both agreed to trust each other and have a good time, and when we got back together Sunday night, we would fill each other in on what we did.
My weekend was way more wholesome than usual – I didn’t drink or masturbate. I attended a lot of lectures, meditated, and did a lot of self-reflection. I also found out a family member died that weekend, and came down with a cold.
Needless to say, this combination put me in an emotionally fragile state.
Meanwhile, Matthew had a rip roaring bachelor weekend, and couldn’t wait to tell me all about it.
He picked me up from the airport and told me that on Friday night, he had a sexy sleepover with his girlfriend. I was expecting that, and was fine with it.
Then he told me that on Saturday night, he had a sexy sleepover with another woman I didn’t know, and that they had a wild and crazy Male-Female-Male threesome.
“What?” I whined. “You mean you had two sleepovers, sex with two women, AND a threesome?”
“Yes,” he admitted, somewhat proudly.
Aw man! I felt so left out! I felt like a big baby. My feelings were hurt, but I sucked it up. I reminded myself that we made a deal – we were both allowed to do our thing, and be open and honest about it. He had done nothing wrong.
We filled each other in on the details of our weekend, and I have to say, his details were WAY more interesting, pretty hot and funny. He talked about hooking up the threesome, and how the guy tossed his used rubber in the trashcan, but it didn’t have a liner in it, so Matthew said to him, “I love you brother, but I’m not reaching in there and fishing out your rubber.”
I admired the woman for being so bold and taking risks to get what she wanted – she had a crazy orgasmic time with two big, hulking, manly men. “Hey, now we have something in common – we’ve both had MFMs with the same guys. Maybe I should meet her sometime. What do you think?”
He thought that was a good idea, and said he’d introduce us sometime.
That night, we had sweet reunion sex (his third woman in as many days!) and I caught up on my orgasms. That didn’t stop me from getting sick all week, which is why I haven’t updated this blog lately. Well, that and all the funerals and weddings, and events and dates.
You see, last weekend he went out of town, and I had dates with two different men in one day! It wasn’t intentional, just the way things worked out.
Ah, poly life. Gotta love it.