Planning the Gang Bang

By Kendra Holliday | February 19, 2013

Prepping for the gang bang!

Prepping for the gang bang!

One of my goals in life was to publish a book by the time I turned 40.

I never got around to doing that (at least there’s the Show Me anthology!), so I’m having a gang bang instead.

Someone asked me: “What’s the best way to call slut-shamers out on their bullshit and make them feel like total asses for being total asses?”

I replied: “By being sluts who are totally happy, healthy, and well-adjusted? By not inviting them to my gang bang?”

That’s right – there are NO slut-shamers attending my gang bang.

The eight or so men attending are friends of ours, and fabulously open-minded and sex-positive. And you know what? SO ARE THEIR PARTNERS. I want to thank their wonderful partners for giving their blessing for their men to be a part of something so extraordinary. THANK YOU FOR SHARING!

Everyone has different fantasies when it comes to gang bangs. One woman I know said she had one where she was blindfolded and her husband found five black men and five white men from Adult Friend Finder to come work her over. My friend Jade went with an abduction surprise scene.

I’ve been watching a lot of gang bang porn. This one featuring a British woman and ten men freaks me out. As in, I watched it and I was worried I’d have bad dreams afterward. I’m not ready for that hardcore scene.

This one featuring a woman in a darkened theater is more up my alley. It’s more natural, less humiliating. To me, dirty talk is not humiliating, it’s just sexy.

Celebrity Love Coach JuJuMama doesn’t care for the term “gang bang;” she prefers “feminine magnetism exercise.” I can dig it.

My partner Matthew is managing my gang bang. Here is the letter he wrote to our Chosen Few, our minyan, if you will:

Gentlemen,

I hope this email finds you and your loved ones doing well. You are receiving this because both Kendra and I like you, your energy, and we want you to be a part of something very special to us.

This is your official invitation to be a part of Kendra’s 40th Birthday Gang Bang. This is something Kendra has been wanting to do for a long time. We both agreed that we wanted it to be well thought out and planned with people we both admire for any number of reasons. This is a celebration, so the image of what a lot of us have in our heads about what a “Gang Bang” is may not match up here (see the details below). One thing for sure – we want everyone to have a great time!

We hope you will read through this email and accept our invitation. Please know that if for whatever reason you decline, our thoughts and feelings about you will not change. Everyone has their wants/needs and we realize this may not be your thing. No worries at all!!

Here are the details:

When: Saturday, March 23rd, 2013
Time Frame: 8-11pm
Dress: Shirt and Tie
Donation: Bottle of Bourbon, and possibly your tie (for pictures and/or a memento for Kendra to keep)

The Event Vision and Details:
-Classy and Respectful, yet Fun and Laid Back. No humiliation involved..at least this time around. (Note: Dirty talk does not count as humiliation, it’s hot and fun!)
-6-10 participants maximum.
-Even though it is inferred, you do not have to have intercourse, or even oral sex (giving or receiving) with Kendra in order to be a part of this. Your hands and masculine energy are great tools as well!
-Condoms (provided) are mandatory for vaginal Intercourse.
-No anal.
-No cum in Kendra’s mouth or on her face.
-She DOES want cum anywhere else on her body!!!
-No guests. Strictly the invited people only.
-Please arrive freshly showered.
-Pictures will be taken for private use only. There will also be some staged shots of Kendra to be used on her blog. Your identity will be kept private guaranteed!

We do ask that if you do RSVP that you want to be a part of this celebration, please make solid plans to be there. It wouldn’t work out well if a few days before, three or four people decide not to attend for whatever reason. Of course, we understand if you have an emergency that will not allow you to attend, but we want to have a confident idea of who will be there. After all, six is a gang bang, three is a foursome. 😉

Thank you, Gentlemen!!!

Peace and Love,

Matthew
(and Kendra Holliday)

PS: Kendra just received another clean STI report. We are strong practitioners of safer sex. We trust you are as well.

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I’m SO excited – everyone we invited replied YES. I can’t believe it!!! I haven’t been with at least half of the men attending, and the ones I have been with are awesome. At least two of the men attending are bisexual. It’s a diverse, sexy group.

I’m gonna be freaked into heaven!

I’m nervous and excited – a few of the men who are coming told me they are as well. They wonder what the dynamic will be like, if they will rise to the occasion, if they will measure up. This is new to so many of us.

We are brave sexplorers!

We’ll all do just fine!

Comments

Jade 2013-02-19 18:01:06

I’m so happy to see the planning proceeding so well! What a lovely letter. I do hope it is everything you hope and dream for, and more! Too bad the timing sucks so bad for me… 🙁

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    Matthew 2013-02-20 08:16:17

    You and A will be missed! See you soon, though!

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ChasH 2013-02-19 19:01:12

March 23rd looks like a long time to wait for this. I hope you, the whole gang and everyone have a great time.

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    Kendra Holliday 2013-02-20 07:54:56

    I looove anticipation! I have plenty to keep me occupied in the meantime!

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Matthew 2013-02-19 19:58:17

Awwwwww Yeah!!! The way I see it, there is nothing to “measure up” to? There’s a first time for everything. It’ll be a great time regardless!!

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Vivian 2013-02-20 08:06:58

You are an inspiration!!!!!!

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Sam 2013-02-20 16:01:17

Sounds like a hoot! Have a great time 🙂

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Lawrence 2013-02-20 20:58:59

This is amazing story and it’s more amazing that your husband is giving you this magnificant gift. My only question is are you and your husband swingers?

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    Matthew 2013-02-21 11:12:15

    We are not married. I wouldn’t classify us as swingers necessarily. We are in an open poly swingy relationship, with some BDSM/Kinky tendencies thrown in for good measure. We are primary partners who operate on mutual respect and responsible hedonism. We’ve experienced numbers of things alone and together for the last five years. This will be another one of those things and it is a first for both of us!! Does that help? 🙂

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Amy L. 2013-02-21 07:32:49

Have a fabulous time! And Happy 40th in advance! xoxo

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Buddha 2013-02-21 20:07:27

Sounds awesome. The second clip is nice. Just don’t scream out, “Aww aww yeah!”

Here’s what WOULD sound nice, though:

Chew on some bacon and say, “I just need some sausage to go with this.”
“Shama lama ding me with that dong, boys.”
“Ok, who’s going to squirt hot sauce on my pussy and eat this mother.”
“So climb in. It’s a town full of losers, but um… don’t pull out… of here… to win.”

And, my favorite…

“Oh… fuck me, Buddha. Fuck me with your big, fat keyboard.”

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tia 2013-02-24 10:28:52

Hurry up 40th birthday, so that I can see these staged pics! 🙂

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Gary LaBrot 2013-03-07 06:36:39

ANXIOUSLY AWAITING….

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Jay 2013-06-29 03:34:34

What an awesome 40th! If only I could convince my partner to have one like this herself!

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BiBoiKevin 2013-11-11 22:43:03

Thank you so much for having this up. I am in the beginning stages of planning my first gangbang. I hope you enjoyed yours and I wanted you to know that I got some very good insight from your page that will help my experience remain safe and fun.

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