Reviews: Events

Featuring upcoming events as well as recounting art shows, festivals, fairs, lectures, and other opportunities for education and enlightenment. Usually sex related, always culturally stimulating.

Anti-Porn Review: We Are The World 25 for Haiti

I WAS going to review an interracial porn called Black & White Sandwich in response to the fact that I can't find Black & White Milano cookies anywhere in town, but that got interrupted by some asshole sending me this music video of the new We Are The World - Haiti Style. 1. Words that come to mind as soon as I click on the link...

Written on February 18, 2010 | 16 Comments

TheFWord's Little Shop of Smells

My friend TheFWord (in this case, the F stands for Fragrance) has an odd passion - he collects scents, potions, colognes and perfumes. He has over 200, many popular names, but also rare European lines. Here's what he does: You tell him what kind of smells you like, give him $20 (or $50 or $100, depending on how much you want) and he'll create a...

Written on January 29, 2010 | 23 Comments

Beat Me in St. Louis 2009

Last weekend was Beat Me in St. Louis, the largest annual BDSM event in the area. I almost didn't go, but then a mysterious benefactor stepped in and got me tickets for my birthday (thank you, fairy kinkfather!) I'm glad I got to go - it was bigger and better than Spanksgiving last year. I love the kind of events that have to state that no...

Written on April 3, 2009 | 10 Comments

My 2nd FLOG

Remember how I went to my first FLOG last fall? Well I finally got to attend another, accompanied by Beast (this time was HIS first!) We arrived at the tail end of a bladeplay demonstration, which to me is just a guy showing off his rad knife collection using human props. Do you really need to spend an hour and a half explaining how to mindfuck...

Written on March 12, 2009 | 9 Comments

Annie Sprinkle's Sidewalk Sex Clinic

Last week I participated in a Sidewalk Sex Clinic with Annie Sprinkle and a few other local sexperts, hosted by Washington University as part of their hugely successful Sex Week 2009. It was a GREAT TIME! There were representatives from Planned Parenthood, the LGBT Group at Wash U, and Gravity Plays Favorites, an amazing acrobat/pole dancing duo....

Written on February 16, 2009 | 8 Comments

My First FLOG, Part 2

Continued from Tuesday's post.... My escort Dom, T0ne, asked me if I wanted to be tied up. I said yes. Now I regretted my casual attire - how I wish I was wearing black lingerie and stockings. Instead, I had on a skirt, mismatched undies, and no bra. WHY the Panty Parade Queen would attend a fetish event wearing boring undies is beyond me. SIGH. I...

Written on October 2, 2008 | 10 Comments

My First FLOG

I went to my first FLOG last weekend. FLOG is the local Fetish Lifestyle Open Group. I went on a good night. The group meets in a local meeting hall. There's a minimal cover charge, and as soon as you attend one, you get a laminated card that will get you in from then on - no yearly fee or anything, it's very open and flexible. I recommend that...

Written on September 30, 2008 | 17 Comments

Pics from TBK Meetup

About 20 perverts from TBK, FetLife, and okcupid showed up last night, including Beau, Keiko, B Diddle, B Speak, Fallen Angel, Rockabilly Girl and Boy, Joy Joy the Play Toy, and Westley. I gave Rockabilly Girl my Octopus as a birthday gift. She got a hell of a birthday spanking and just look at all the hot entertainment. I had a hard time keeping...

Written on September 13, 2008 | 40 Comments

Shadow and Light

I introduced a friend to my blog the other day. He saw the Flesh & Debris photo series. Photos like these... ...inspired him to write this poem. Shadow and Light She seeks the shadows of the silent woods, The trees her troop of steadfast sentinels, To flee the sun that pierces through the clouds And burns away the fragile mists of morn....

Written on August 10, 2008 | 5 Comments

Why Gay People Are Perverted Mental Cases

The other day I went to a lecture at Washington University for healthcare professionals on how to interact and understand patients who are GLBT (gay, lesbian, bi, transgendered - and yes, I think of BLT sandwiches every time I hear the term.) Here are the notes I took that I think are worth sharing: - GLBT folks are the only group who learn to...

Written on March 16, 2008 | 8 Comments