By Kendra Holliday | December 25, 2016
End of the year recap!
Who here is glad to be done with 2016?
And I didn’t even have that bad of a year – I mainly watched other people’s loved one’s die and shitty world news and election travesty…
I can easily recall bad things, but if I think a little harder, I can conjure some really amazing memories this year –
Going to the cabin
Spending time with people who are no longer alive
Hosting fun events – Shameless Grounds, clothing optional pool party, sex worker workshops, sissy tea party, Fleshtivus!
Road trip with Sex Positive St Louis crew to Chicago CatalystCon
Tantra training in NYC!
A quick jaunt to Texas…
Fun with family – my daughter, partner, siblings and partners are still alive and well
New dishwasher, washing machine, and dryer – so many gifts and blessings thanks to my clients and loved ones
Another trip to NYC and the Poconos!
Lots and LOTS and LOTS of sexy time! Tantra, long distance clients visiting, devirginizing, fetish facilitation and roleplay realized….
And another year of good health – no serious illnesses or STIs, hooray!
And so many loved ones, a roof over my head, food in my belly.
Want to hear something funny?
I’ll be honest with you – as a sex worker, I sometimes spend intimate time with anywhere between 0-4 people a day, in all kinds of ways – talking, touching, tasting, teaching, fucking…
I love what I do, but it’s important to pace yourself – if you don’t, you can get drained of emotional and physical energy.
And one thing I am firm about is this – I won’t let my work interfere with my personal love life.
Even after a day of intimacy with others, I make sure I take good care of my man.
So it was pretty funny the other day when I came over to his house and we got into bed for some sexy time.
I swear, I fell asleep on the job the other night – I fell asleep giving a blowjob.
I was sucking away, then nodded off, and my head rested on his belly… zzzz…
I felt so bad, but he was totally cool about it. He’s so good and understanding and doesn’t take things personally.
I made it up to him a couple days later with a wonderful PENIS SPA session. We set up the massage table and I doused him with warm, fragrant massage oil, and focused on his penis for a good hour. (Of course, I had a nice massage and orgasm first – a healthy relationship is give and give 😉
We got cut short because we had to meet friends for dim sum (only 3 minutes late, thank you!)
So, yeah. I’ll definitely be offering penis spa sessions next year. That’s some good stuff. It’s kind of like tantra/erotic massage/adult playtime/pure pleasure.
And, of course, pussy spas as well!