The Good, the Bad, and the Lovely

By Kendra Holliday | December 25, 2016

This chest makes an excellent tuffet

End of the year recap!

Who here is glad to be done with 2016?



And I didn’t even have that bad of a year – I mainly watched other people’s loved one’s die and shitty world news and election travesty…

I can easily recall bad things, but if I think a little harder, I can conjure some really amazing memories this year –

Going to the cabin

Spending time with people who are no longer alive

Hosting fun events – Shameless Grounds, clothing optional pool party, sex worker workshops, sissy tea party, Fleshtivus!

Road trip with Sex Positive St Louis crew to Chicago CatalystCon

Tantra training in NYC!

Sun and moon book

A quick jaunt to Texas…

Fun with family – my daughter, partner, siblings and partners are still alive and well

New dishwasher, washing machine, and dryer – so many gifts and blessings thanks to my clients and loved ones

Another trip to NYC and the Poconos!

Lots and LOTS and LOTS of sexy time! Tantra, long distance clients visiting, devirginizing, fetish facilitation and roleplay realized….


And another year of good health – no serious illnesses or STIs, hooray!

And so many loved ones, a roof over my head, food in my belly.

Want to hear something funny?

I feel so loved and happy!

I’ll be honest with you – as a sex worker, I sometimes spend intimate time with anywhere between 0-4 people a day, in all kinds of ways – talking, touching, tasting, teaching, fucking…

I love what I do, but it’s important to pace yourself – if you don’t, you can get drained of emotional and physical energy.

And one thing I am firm about is this – I won’t let my work interfere with my personal love life.

Even after a day of intimacy with others, I make sure I take good care of my man.

So it was pretty funny the other day when I came over to his house and we got into bed for some sexy time.

I swear, I fell asleep on the job the other night – I fell asleep giving a blowjob.

I was sucking away, then nodded off, and my head rested on his belly… zzzz…


I felt so bad, but he was totally cool about it. He’s so good and understanding and doesn’t take things personally.

I made it up to him a couple days later with a wonderful PENIS SPA session. We set up the massage table and I doused him with warm, fragrant massage oil, and focused on his penis for a good hour. (Of course, I had a nice massage and orgasm first – a healthy relationship is give and give 😉

We got cut short because we had to meet friends for dim sum (only 3 minutes late, thank you!)

So, yeah. I’ll definitely be offering penis spa sessions next year. That’s some good stuff. It’s kind of like tantra/erotic massage/adult playtime/pure pleasure.

And, of course, pussy spas as well!

American Beauty!


Bill Chaffee 2016-12-29 04:00:19

I’m a senior virgin. I turned 65 on Feb. 24 and I’m still a virgin. I also have cerebral palsy and gender dysphoria. My impression of you is that you have beautiful breasts. I also think that you’re more honest than most people. The question “Are all men pedophiles?”is a question not a statement. However my gender dysphoria did intensify when I read it. Trumps behavior since the election since the election makes me wonder if 2016 is indeed a shitty year (I wrote in Carly Fiorina).


    Kendra Holliday 2016-12-29 06:16:34

    It sounds like you deal with challenges most of us don’t. Thank you for sharing with us – a lot of people don’t even know what gender dysphoria is.


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