Tools and Tips for Women Seeking Orgasms

By Kendra Holliday | September 30, 2015

Are you a woman who hasn’t had an orgasm in a few years? How about ever?

Want to expand your orgasmic repertoire?

Here you go. Read this post by Joan Price. Then, watch this.

Betty Dodson has been a pioneer of female orgasm for over 40 years. She’s 85 now, and while she tends to rub some people the wrong way, I have to admit she is on to something!

She’s known for her book Sex for One, as well as being a champion for the vulva and clitoris.

A few years ago, she had an advice column in Bust magazine, and I was dismayed at some of her replies. She seemed very dismissive of women masturbating outside the box and seemed to be on her way out, introducing her sidekick, Carlin Ross.

But then earlier this year, she caught my attention by pissing off a bunch of politically correct people at CatalystCon East. She joked about grabbing someone’s ass and fucking a dog or something, and people were outraged.

So that got me interested in her again, and then I heard her piece on the RISK! podcast and that was great. And then I read Jenny Block’s account of a group masturbation workshop hosted by Betty. Mark my words – we’re totally going to do something like that in St. Louis in the near future!

So I’m back to being a Betty fan (just like how Dan Savage won me over again by being bold and owning up to past foibles, while still sticking to his guns.)

My friend who is in her 40’s and newly dating just discovered the Hitachi Magic Wand. She CROWED about how she doesn’t NEED a man now! The wand helps her take the physical edge off when her hormones are raging, and allows her to take her time finding her next partner, one who is well-suited for her.

So, yeah. Click around this blog post and discover some new tools and tips. I love learning something sexy and new everyday!

And spreading the good word!


Charles H 2015-10-04 14:35:10

There’s truth to what your friend said about not needing a man. Cracked talked to someone who worked at an adult store, and they said they hated to sell that Hitachi Wand. Every time a man bought one for his wife, the marriage would break up within several months.

I’ve never seen you blog anything about a Sybian, so I’m assuming you haven’t tried one, yet . . .


    Kendra Holliday 2015-10-05 02:02:03

    Can you believe I have never tried a Sybian??? I know of several rich attorneys or doctors who bought one for their wife, and it’s shoved in their huge, walk-in closet, never used. Such a pity! But Joan Price has one, and she doesn’t neglect it!


      Kendra Holliday 2015-10-05 02:02:57

      OH and I got my Womanizer! It’s charging now! Matthew wants to be present the first time I use it, so I’m waiting for date night. I hope I don’t break up with him afterward! haha


merry 2015-10-12 09:28:32

Masturbation! How can that be bad for you. ? 40 years ago my then boyfriend bought me a Magic Wand, and taught me about multiple orgasms. I still have it, (and have multiples) and have several wands, vibrators, fifis etc., in my collection. My motto had always been, as long as god makes batteries and electricity, I do not NEED a man. Can’t imagine a life without them. Husband of 25 years likes them too, his handy helpers.


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